Self-Sufficiency and Happiness: Should Sven prioritize personal happiness or social inclusion?

By AristotleSchool & Academic Life2 min readGrade 8.0
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Consider a child who feels content playing alone with their toys, finding joy in their imagination. This shows that happiness can come from within, rather than relying on others or external things for joy.

The Choice

Should Sven prioritize personal happiness or social inclusion?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 8
Word Count
308 words
Published
Jun 7, 2025

The Dilemma

Sven and Dev became close after being paired together for a competition neither of them wanted to enter. One day, Sven discovers a new game that he finds incredibly fun and engaging. Unlike other games, this one requires a lot of creativity and imagination, allowing Sven to build and explore worlds on his own. As Sven immerses himself in this game, he starts feeling a deep sense of satisfaction and happiness, even when playing alone. Meanwhile, Dev invites Sven to join a group of friends who are playing a popular online multiplayer game. This game is all the rage at school, and playing it would mean being part of the in-crowd. Sven is tempted by the idea of joining his friends and enjoying the social aspect of gaming, but he also cherishes the unique joy he finds in his new game.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Self-Knowledge
vs
Autonomy

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Play the game he enjoys alone.

B

Join friends in the popular game.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    How does playing alone make Sven feel happy?

  3. 3

    Why might Sven feel pressure to join his friends?

  4. 4

    How might Aristotle advise Sven in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Aristotle

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Self-Sufficiency and Happiness — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

Self-Sufficiency and Happiness — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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