Confucius on Should Emily stay for the event or go to the hospital?

By Confuciusโ€ขMoral Philosophyโ€ข2 min readโ€ขGrade 10.2
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Emily is a senior at her high school and the president of the student council. The school is hosting its annual cultural day, and Emily's presence is crucial for organizing the event's success.

The Choice

Should Emily stay for the event or go to the hospital?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 9-12
Reading Level
Level 10.219154800183741
Word Count
311 words
Published
Mar 24, 2026

The Dilemma

Emily is a senior at her high school and the president of the student council. The school is hosting its annual cultural day, and Emily's presence is crucial for organizing the event's success. However, her grandmother, to whom she is very close, has unexpectedly fallen ill and is in the hospital. Her friend Jake says, 'Emily, we really need you here, but I understand if you have to go.'

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Duty
vs
Family Vs. Obligation

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Stay and help organize the cultural day.

B

Go to the hospital to support her grandmother.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers โ€“ the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What are the potential consequences of each choice?

  2. 2

    How does duty influence Emily's decision?

  3. 3

    Which relationships should weigh more in her decision?

  4. 4

    How might Emily balance her obligations to both parties?

  5. 5

    What would you do in a similar situation, and why?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Confucius

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Duty โ€” 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
participation
Standard15 min

Duty โ€” 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
participation