Enjoying Good Fortune: Should Vikram enjoy his praise or share it?

By EpictetusRelationships & Social Skills2 min readGrade 8.7
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

When a student receives a compliment for their art project, they take a moment to appreciate the praise instead of brushing it off. This helps them feel confident and motivated to create more.

The Choice

Should Vikram enjoy his praise or share it?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 8.7
Word Count
295 words
Published
Jun 7, 2025

The Dilemma

Vikram and Isabella were both selected to present their art projects at the school art fair. Vikram's project, a vibrant painting of a bustling cityscape, received a lot of attention and praise from teachers and students alike. Isabella, whose project was a delicate sculpture, congratulated Vikram and expressed how much she admired his work. Vikram felt a warm glow of pride, but he also noticed Isabella's sculpture wasn't receiving as much attention. He knew how hard Isabella had worked on it. As the fair continued, Vikram overheard a group of students discussing how amazing his painting was, and he felt a surge of happiness. However, he also felt a twinge of guilt, thinking about Isabella's unrecognized effort. Vikram No one else can make this call.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Compassion
vs
Loyalty

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Enjoy the praise himself.

B

Share the spotlight with Isabella.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    How might Isabella feel about the situation?

  3. 3

    What are the benefits of sharing praise with others?

  4. 4

    How might Epictetus advise Vikram in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Epictetus

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Enjoying Good Fortune — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

Enjoying Good Fortune — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
participation