Perspective on Loss: Anders must choose to tell the truth or recreate the project.

By EpictetusCharacter Development2 min readGrade 8.6
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Imagine a child who loses a favorite toy. Instead of feeling sad about the loss, they can think of it as a lesson learned about taking care of their belongings and cherish the memories with it.

The Choice

Anders must choose to tell the truth or recreate the project.

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 8.637042548244597
Word Count
253 words
Published
Mar 23, 2026

The Dilemma

Anders and Eun-Kyung are working on a school project together. They've spent weeks collecting data and creating a presentation. On the day of the presentation, Anders accidentally spills water on his laptop, causing it to malfunction. The project file is lost, and there's no backup. Eun-Kyung is upset, as they both had put in a lot of effort. Anders feels guilty and faces a dilemma. He can either tell the teacher the truth about the accident, risking a lower grade for both of them, or he can try to recreate the project quickly, possibly compromising the quality. Anders now faces a choice: (A) Tell the teacher about the accident or (B) Attempt to recreate the project quickly.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Honesty
vs
Responsibility

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Tell the teacher about the accident

B

Attempt to recreate the project quickly

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    How does 'Perspective on Loss' apply here?

  3. 3

    What are the consequences of each choice?

  4. 4

    How might Epictetus advise Anders here?

  5. 5

    Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?

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Philosophical Perspective

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Perspective on Loss — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

Perspective on Loss — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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