Overview
Consider a teenager who decides to stand up for a friend being bullied. Even if others criticize them for it, they know it’s the right thing to do and act on their conviction.
The Choice
Should Obi stand up for Alex or stay silent?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 7
- Word Count
- 306 words
- Published
- Jun 7, 2025
The Dilemma
Obi and Lucia have been inseparable since the third grade, always pushing each other to try new things. One day, during lunch, they notice a group of students teasing a new student, Alex, who seems shy and overwhelmed. Lucia whispers to Obi, "We should do something." Obi feels the same way but hesitates, knowing that standing up to the bullies might make them a target too. Lucia suggests they could either ignore it and hope a teacher intervenes, or they could stand up for Alex and invite him to join them at their table. Obi is torn. He knows that standing up for Alex is the right thing to do, but he worries about the social repercussions. Obi The choice is theirs to make.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Stand up for Alex.
Stay silent and avoid attention.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
Why do you think some people choose to stay silent when they see someone being bullied?
- 3
How might standing up for Alex change the situation for everyone involved?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Obi in this situation?
- 5
Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?
Did you like this dilemma?
Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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