Overview
A teenager might want to go to a concert but can't get tickets. Instead of feeling upset, they can choose to enjoy a movie night with friends at home, finding joy in what they have instead of what they lack.
The Choice
Anya must choose between attending a concert or supporting Daiki.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 9.056177215189873
- Word Count
- 316 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Anya was excited about the annual school talent show. Her best friend, Daiki, was performing a solo dance, and Anya had promised to record it for him. On the day of the show, Anya's parents surprised her with tickets to a concert by her favorite band, happening at the same time. Anya was thrilled but also torn. She knew how much Daiki was counting on her to be there, but she also really wanted to see the concert. Anya now faces a choice: (A) attend the concert with her parents, or (B) stay and support Daiki by recording his performance.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Attend the concert with parents
Support Daiki at the talent show
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the principle of happiness apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Anya here?
- 5
Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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