Overview
If a child feels proud of their new video game, they should remember that their kindness and effort in school are what truly matter, not just what they own.
The Choice
Should Diego lend his new laptop to Jae or protect his own property?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 9.946080494684317
- Word Count
- 419 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Diego and Jae are in their school's computer lab working on a group project. Diego has just received a brand-new, top-of-the-line gaming laptop from his parents as a reward for his good grades. Jae, who is using an older, slower computer, compliments Diego on his new laptop. As they work, Diego notices Jae struggling with the slow speed of his computer, which is affecting their project progress. Diego feels proud of his new possession but also values the quality of their work and Jae's friendship. He considers offering Jae his laptop to use for the project, knowing it would speed things up and show his generosity. However, he also enjoys the admiration and status his new laptop brings him. Diego now faces a choice: (A) offer Jae his laptop for the project, because generosity and teamwork matter more than a possession, or (B) keep his laptop and suggest Jae use the school computers, because it is a gift from his parents and he is responsible for taking care of it.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Offer Jae his laptop for the project, because generosity and teamwork matter more than a possession
Keep his laptop and suggest Jae use the school computers, because it is a gift from his parents and he is responsible for taking care of it
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the value of internal qualities apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Diego here?
- 5
Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
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