Overview
Think of a child who has a favorite toy. If they remember it's just a toy and not something irreplaceable, they won't feel as sad if it breaks or gets lost.
The Choice
Should Bjorn accept Hana's offer or let it go?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 8.775323178262664
- Word Count
- 347 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Bjorn and Hana are best friends who love playing video games together. One day, while at Bjorn's house, Hana accidentally drops Bjorn's favorite game console, and it breaks. Bjorn is upset because the console was a gift from his older brother, who is away at college. Hana feels terrible and offers to use her savings to help replace it. However, Bjorn remembers something his teacher once said about understanding the true nature of things and not getting too attached to material objects. Bjorn now faces a choice: (A) accept Hana's offer to replace the console, which might strain her financially, or (B) let it go and find other ways to enjoy time with Hana, remembering that the console is just an object.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Accept Hana's offer to replace it
Let it go, find other ways to enjoy time
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the principle of 'The Nature of Things' apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Bjorn here?
- 5
Think about a time you lost something important. Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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