Bodhi and Parvati are in the same class and have been friends since the start of the school year...

By Frederick Douglass•School & Academic Life•2 min read•Grade 8.9
Classroom
Intermediate

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 8.9
Word Count
329 words
Published
Jan 1, 2024

The Dilemma

Bodhi and Parvati are in the same class and have been friends since the start of the school year. Recently, a new student, Lucas, joined their class. Lucas is a bit different, often wearing bright, mismatched clothes and talking about his love for insects, which some classmates find odd. A group of popular students, led by Jamie, started teasing Lucas for his quirks. Bodhi initially ignored the teasing, but when Jamie invited Bodhi to join their group, Bodhi felt the pressure to fit in. During recess, Jamie and the others began mocking Lucas again, and this time, Jamie turned to Bodhi, expecting him to join in the laughter. Parvati, who was standing nearby, gave Bodhi a concerned look, silently urging him to remember their shared values of kindness and acceptance. Bodhi

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Autonomy
vs
Compassion

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Join in the teasing.

B

Defend Lucas.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    Why might Bodhi feel pressured to join in the teasing?

  3. 3

    What are the consequences of standing up for Lucas?

  4. 4

    How might Frederick Douglass advise Bodhi in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Frederick Douglass

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Bodhi and Parvati are in the same class and have been friends since the start of the school year... — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
participation
Standard15 min

Bodhi and Parvati are in the same class and have been friends since the start of the school year... — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
participation