Henry is a new student at Maplewood Middle School, having just moved to town...

By Frederick Douglass•Relationships & Social Skills•2 min read•Grade 8.1
Classroom
Intermediate

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Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 8.1
Word Count
296 words
Published
Jan 1, 2024

The Dilemma

Henry is a new student at Maplewood Middle School, having just moved to town. On his first day, he feels overwhelmed by the unfamiliar faces and the bustling hallways. During lunch, he sits alone until Quinn, a friendly classmate, approaches him. Quinn invites Henry to join a group project for science class, offering help and friendship. However, Henry overhears some students gossiping about Quinn, suggesting he might not be trustworthy. This leaves Henry feeling uncertain about whether to accept Quinn's offer. He worries about making the wrong choice and being left out or betrayed.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Loyalty
vs
Autonomy

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Trust Quinn and join the group.

B

Stay isolated and avoid risk.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    Why is trust important in making new friends?

  3. 3

    How can you tell if someone is trustworthy?

  4. 4

    How might Frederick Douglass advise Henry in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Frederick Douglass

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Henry is a new student at Maplewood Middle School, having just moved to town... — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
participation
Standard15 min

Henry is a new student at Maplewood Middle School, having just moved to town... — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
participation