Noah and Dev are best friends who love spending time together after school...

By Frederick Douglassβ€’Relationships & Social Skillsβ€’2 min readβ€’Grade 8.2
Classroom
Intermediate

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 8.2
Word Count
333 words
Published
Jan 1, 2024

The Dilemma

Noah and Dev have known each other long enough to know exactly which buttons not to push. Recently, Noah noticed that Dev has been acting unusually cheerful, cracking jokes and laughing loudly even when things aren't that funny. While their classmates are entertained, Noah senses something isn't quite right. One day, after a particularly boisterous joke session, Noah finds Dev sitting alone, looking pensive. Noah remembers how Dev has been talking less about things that used to excite him, like their shared hobby of building model airplanes. Noah wonders if Dev's laughter is hiding something deeper. As they walk home, Dev continues to joke around, but Noah can't shake the feeling that his friend might be masking his true emotions. Noah Something has to give.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Compassion
vs
Loyalty

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Ask Dev if something's wrong.

B

Keep joking with Dev.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    Why might someone act happy when they're not?

  3. 3

    How can you tell if a friend is truly happy?

  4. 4

    How might Frederick Douglass advise Noah in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Frederick Douglass

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Noah and Dev are best friends who love spending time together after school... β€” 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

Noah and Dev are best friends who love spending time together after school... β€” 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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