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Building Character Through Fair Play: Clara must choose between pushing to win or lifting up her teammates.

By Frederick Douglassā€¢School & Academic Lifeā€¢2 min readā€¢Grade 9.6
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

A child hopes to win a game but the team is falling behind. If they choose to encourage their teammates and play with integrity rather than pressure everyone to win at all costs, they build the kind of character that lasts long after the game ends.

The Choice

Clara must choose between pushing to win or enjoying the game.

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 9.554412825135206
Word Count
353 words
Published
Mar 23, 2026

The Dilemma

Clara and her friend Chen are part of a school soccer team. They have been practicing hard for the upcoming inter-school tournament. Clara is excited and hopes to win, but during the final match, their team is losing. Chen suggests they focus on playing their best and supporting each other, regardless of the outcome. Clara feels torn between her desire to win and the value of encouraging her teammates. As the match progresses, Clara notices her teammates getting frustrated and losing morale. She realizes that her words and actions right now could shape how her teammates feel about themselves and about the game. Clara now faces a choice: (A) focus on winning and push her teammates harder, or (B) encourage her team to play with integrity and lift each other up.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Fairness
vs
Autonomy

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Push for a win

B

Encourage her team and play with integrity

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers ā€“ the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    How does building character through fair play apply here?

  3. 3

    What are the consequences of each choice?

  4. 4

    How might Frederick Douglass advise Clara here?

  5. 5

    Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Frederick Douglass

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Building Character Through Fair Play ā€” 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
participation
Classroom
Standard15 min

Managing Expectations ā€” 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
participation
Classroom