Overview
A coach notices a player starting to show signs of unsportsmanlike behavior. By addressing it immediately and discussing the importance of respect in sports, the coach helps the player understand and change their behavior before it becomes a pattern.
The Choice
Should Ali talk to Renata or ignore her behavior?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 8.9
- Word Count
- 276 words
- Published
- Jun 7, 2025
The Dilemma
Ali and Renata have known each other long enough to know exactly which buttons not to push. Recently, Ali noticed that Renata has been getting increasingly aggressive during their games, often pushing other players and arguing with the referee. Ali is worried that Renata's behavior might not only affect the team's spirit but also lead to more serious consequences if left unchecked. During a practice session, Ali sees Renata shove another player, causing a minor injury. The coach doesn't notice, and Renata dismisses it as an accident. Ali No one else can make this call.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Talk to Renata about her behavior.
Ignore Renata's behavior.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
Why is it important to address bad behavior early?
- 3
How might ignoring a friend's bad behavior affect your friendship?
- 4
How might John Locke advise Ali in this situation?
- 5
Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from John Locke
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