Marcus Aurelius on Should Maria perform with a sore throat or let Jamie perform?

By Marcus AureliusRelationships & Social Skills2 min readGrade 7.5
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Maria is excited to perform a solo in the school concert, but on the day of the event, she wakes up with a sore throat. Her voice is not at its best, and performing might not go well.

The Choice

Should Maria perform with a sore throat or let Jamie perform?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 7.47402197802198
Word Count
325 words
Published
Mar 23, 2026

The Dilemma

Maria is excited to perform a solo in the school concert, but on the day of the event, she wakes up with a sore throat. Her voice is not at its best, and performing might not go well. Her friend, Jamie, offers to take her place, despite the short notice. "I know you wanted this solo, Maria, but I can step in if you want," Jamie says. Maria knows if she performs, she might not sound great, but if she lets Jamie take the spot, she'll miss her chance.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Acceptance
vs
Loyalty

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Maria performs despite her sore throat.

B

Maria lets Jamie perform the solo.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    How might Maria feel if she performs and struggles?

  2. 2

    What could happen if Maria lets Jamie perform?

  3. 3

    Why is it important to accept situations we can't control?

  4. 4

    How does Maria's decision impact her relationship with Jamie?

  5. 5

    What might Maria learn from this experience?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Marcus Aurelius

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Marble bust of Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and Stoic philosopher, featuring curly hair and beard, looking slightly to his left.

Marcus Aurelius Antoninus121-180

Marcus Aurelius (121-180 CE) was a Roman Emperor and a leading Stoic philosopher. His reign was marked by military conflict and plague, yet he is renowned for his Meditations, a personal journal reflecting on Stoic principles of virtue, duty, and resilience.

Stoicism
Practical application of Stoic philosophy to daily life and leadership
Emphasis on reason, virtue, and duty to the common good (cosmopolis)
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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

The Wisdom of Acceptance — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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