Overview
A teenager decides to help a classmate who is struggling with homework, even if others think it's uncool. They focus on doing what they believe is right rather than worrying about fitting in.
The Choice
Should Bolanle invite Alex or leave him alone?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 8.4
- Word Count
- 315 words
- Published
- Jun 6, 2025
The Dilemma
Bolanle and Vera bonded over a school project two years ago and haven't stopped talking since. One day, during lunch, they notice a new student, Alex, sitting alone. Bolanle feels a strong urge to invite Alex to join them, believing it's the right thing to do. However, Vera is hesitant, worried about what their other friends might think if they start hanging out with someone new. She mentions that some of their friends might think it's uncool to include Alex, who is a bit different from everyone else. Bolanle understands Vera's concerns but also feels a sense of responsibility to act kindly and justly. She recalls a time when she was new and someone reached out to her, making a huge difference in her life. Bolanle What should they do?
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Invite Alex to join them.
Leave Alex alone.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
Why might Vera be worried about inviting Alex?
- 3
What are the benefits of including someone new?
- 4
How might Marcus Aurelius advise Bolanle in this situation?
- 5
Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?
Did you like this dilemma?
Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Marcus Aurelius
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