The Dangers of Vanity and Competition: Should Layla use Bodhi's strategies or play fair?

By Mary WollstonecraftSchool & Academic Life2 min readGrade 9.3
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Think of a child who only tries to win games to impress others, rather than enjoying the game itself. This focus on winning can lead to dishonesty and a lack of true friendship, as they prioritize being the best over being kind.

The Choice

Should Layla use Bodhi's strategies or play fair?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 9.3
Word Count
306 words
Published
Jun 7, 2025

The Dilemma

Layla and Bodhi are both talented chess players at their middle school. Recently, their school announced a chess tournament with a prize for the winner. Layla, who usually plays for fun, feels the pressure to win after hearing classmates talk about how Bodhi is expected to win because of his past victories. Layla starts practicing rigorously, focusing more on strategies to outsmart Bodhi rather than enjoying the game. As the tournament approaches, Layla overhears Bodhi discussing his strategies with a friend. She realizes she could use this information to gain an advantage. However, doing so feels dishonest and against the spirit of fair play she values. Layla

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Fairness
vs
Integrity

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Use Bodhi's strategies.

B

Play fair using own skills.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    Why might Layla feel pressure to win?

  3. 3

    How does competition affect friendships?

  4. 4

    How might Mary Wollstonecraft advise Layla in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Mary Wollstonecraft

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Portrait of Mary Wollstonecraft by John Opie, circa 1797, showing her in a white dress and black hat, looking thoughtfully to her left.

Mary Wollstonecraft1759-1797

Mary Wollstonecraft (1759-1797) was a pioneering English feminist philosopher and writer. Her seminal work, 'A Vindication of the Rights of Woman' (1792), argued for women's rationality and the necessity of their education for societal progress.

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

The Dangers of Vanity and Competition — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

The Dangers of Vanity and Competition — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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