Hawa must decide whether to keep the wallet or return it.

By ConfuciusCharacter Development2 min readGrade 8.4
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Imagine a student who always tells the truth, even when it’s hard. Because of this honesty, their friends trust them and rely on their opinions, creating a strong friendship. On the other hand, if they lied, they might find themselves isolated and untrusted by their peers.

The Choice

Hawa must decide whether to keep the wallet or return it.

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 8.396560725075528
Word Count
331 words
Published
Nov 30, 2025

The Dilemma

In the middle of a bustling Saturday market, Hawa and her friend Funanya were browsing through colorful stalls filled with fresh fruits and handmade crafts. As they wandered, Hawa noticed a vendor accidentally drop a wallet while setting up his booth. Hawa picked it up and realized it was full of cash. Funanya suggested they hand it over to the vendor, but Hawa hesitated. She thought about her family's financial struggles and how the money could help them. However, she also knew the right thing was to return it to its owner. The wallet felt heavy in her hands, and she could see the vendor frantically searching his stall. Hawa had to decide: should she keep the wallet to help her family or return it to the vendor and be honest?

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Truth
vs
Compassion

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Return the wallet to the vendor.

B

Keep the wallet for her family.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    How do truth and compassion play roles here?

  3. 3

    What might happen if Hawa chooses to keep the wallet?

  4. 4

    What should Hawa consider before making her choice?

  5. 5

    Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?

Conversation Starter

Use this dialogue to spark a class discussion or to help students explore both perspectives.

Mentor

What reasons might Hawa have to keep the wallet?

Student

She might think about helping her family with the money.

Mentor

And what reasons are there to return it?

Student

Returning it would be honest and fair to the vendor.

Mentor

If this happened online or at home, what would stay the same about your choice?

Student

The importance of honesty and fairness would remain.

Mentor

What makes option A appealing? What makes it risky?

Mentor

What makes option A risky in this situation?

Mentor

What seems appealing about option B?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Confucius

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

The Importance of Sincerity — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

The Importance of Sincerity — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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