Overview
Think of being in a school play where you might not get the lead role. Instead of being upset, you focus on making your character the best it can be, contributing to the whole performance.
The Choice
Should Diego commit to his supporting role or pursue what he truly wants?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 10.579916457811198
- Word Count
- 315 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Diego and Jae are in their school's drama club, preparing for the annual play. Diego was hoping to get a lead role but was instead cast as a supporting character. Initially disappointed, Diego considers quitting but realizes the importance of every role in the play. Jae, who got a lead role, encourages Diego to stay, emphasizing how crucial his character is to the story. Diego now faces a choice: (A) commit fully to his supporting role and give it everything he has, or (B) talk honestly to the director about wanting a bigger part, even if it disrupts rehearsals.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Commit to his supporting role and give it everything, honoring the team's effort
Talk to the director about his disappointment and ask to audition for a different part, even if it causes tension
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the principle apply to Diego's situation?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Diego here?
- 5
Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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