Overview
Imagine a student who studies hard for a test but worries constantly about the teacher's grading. If the student focuses on studying well and not on the grade itself, they will feel more at ease and perform better.
The Choice
Talia must choose between altering the data or being honest.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 9.284126984126988
- Word Count
- 351 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Talia and Chen are working on a science project together at school. They've spent weeks gathering data and preparing their presentation. The night before the presentation, Chen calls Talia, worried because he thinks their project might not meet the teacher's expectations. He suggests they should quickly change some data to make it look better. Talia knows that altering the data would be dishonest, but she's also concerned about their grade and Chen's anxiety. She remembers what her mentor once said: focus on what you can control and let go of what you cannot. Talia knows she can control how honest she is, but not the teacher's grading. Talia now faces a choice: (A) agree with Chen to change the data to potentially get a better grade, or (B) insist on presenting their original work honestly, accepting whatever grade they receive.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Change the data for a better grade
Present honestly, accept the grade
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the principle of focusing on what we can control apply here?
- 3
What are the possible consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Talia here?
- 5
Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
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