Overview
Imagine a student preparing for a big test. They can study hard and focus on understanding the material, but they can't control whether the questions will be easy or hard. By concentrating on their preparation, they feel more confident and less anxious about the test day.
The Choice
Talia must choose between helping Chen or focusing on her own work.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 8.631825396825398
- Word Count
- 360 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Talia and Chen are working on a group project for their science class. They have divided the tasks, and Talia is responsible for compiling the final report. Chen, however, is struggling with his part and asks Talia for help. Talia knows that helping Chen might mean she won't have enough time to perfect her section of the report. She also worries about the project's overall grade, which depends on both their contributions. Talia wants to support her friend but is also concerned about her own performance. She reflects on what she can control: her actions and efforts, rather than the final grade or Chen's understanding. Talia now faces a choice: (A) Help Chen with his part and risk her section being less polished, or (B) Focus on perfecting her section and let Chen handle his own work.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Help Chen with his part
Focus on her own section
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the Dichotomy of Control apply here?
- 3
What are the possible consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Talia here?
- 5
Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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