Overview
Imagine a student who sees a classmate being bullied. Instead of joining in or ignoring it, they decide to help the classmate, showing kindness and understanding, believing that everyone deserves compassion regardless of their actions.
The Choice
Should Chen stand up for Alex or stay silent?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 7.9
- Word Count
- 274 words
- Published
- Jun 7, 2025
The Dilemma
Chen and Dana, both 12 years old, are classmates who often hang out together. One day, during recess, Chen notices a group of students teasing a new kid named Alex for his unusual accent and different style of clothing. Dana, who is usually kind, seems to be caught up in the moment and laughs along with the group. Chen feels uncomfortable watching Alex being bullied and remembers his parents' lessons about kindness and respect for everyone. Chen thinks about how Alex must feel and considers stepping in to help, but worries about being laughed at too. As the teasing continues, Chen sees Alex looking increasingly upset and isolated. Chen The next move is up to them.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Stand up for Alex.
Stay silent and avoid attention.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How do you think Alex feels in this situation?
- 3
Why might Dana be acting differently than usual?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Chen in this situation?
- 5
Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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