Overview
Consider a student who feels upset when they receive a low grade on a test. Instead of being discouraged, they realize that their feelings are based on their thoughts about the grade, and they can choose to see it as a chance to learn and improve.
The Choice
Should Anya tell Daiki about the gossip or not?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 8.974090909090908
- Word Count
- 330 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Anya and Daiki are excited about their school's annual talent show. Anya has been practicing a dance routine for weeks, while Daiki plans to perform a magic trick. The day before the show, Anya overhears some classmates gossiping about how they think Daiki's trick is too simple and won't impress anyone. Anya knows Daiki has worked hard and is proud of his act. She feels torn between telling Daiki about the gossip, which might upset him, or keeping it to herself to protect his feelings. Anya now faces a choice: (A) tell Daiki about the gossip, allowing him to decide how to handle it, or (B) keep the gossip to herself and let Daiki perform without worry.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Tell Daiki about the gossip
Keep the gossip to herself
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does 'The Power of Opinion' apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Anya here?
- 5
Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
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