Overview
Imagine a child at a birthday party who eagerly waits for their turn to choose a slice of cake instead of rushing to grab the first piece. They understand that patience brings its own rewards and that they will eventually enjoy their treat.
The Choice
Diego must choose to display his painting now or wait for Jae.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 7.322624434389141
- Word Count
- 247 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Diego and Jae are in their school's art club, preparing for an upcoming exhibition. Each student is allowed to showcase one artwork, but the club has limited space. Diego finishes his painting early and is excited to display it. However, Jae is struggling with her sculpture and needs more time. The club advisor suggests that Diego could wait until the next exhibition to give Jae a chance to finish her piece. Diego is torn between his excitement to show his work and supporting his friend. He remembers the principle of accepting what comes with patience, like at a banquet. Diego now faces a choice: (A) Display his painting now, or (B) Wait for Jae to finish her sculpture.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Display his painting now
Wait for Jae to finish
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does 'The Banquet of Life' apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Diego here?
- 5
Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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