Overview
Imagine a student who worries about their grades, feeling stressed over what their teacher thinks. If they focus instead on studying and doing their best, they can feel more in control and less anxious about the outcome.
The Choice
Talia must choose to do Chen's work or focus on her own.
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades 6-8
- Reading Level
- Level 7.94462915601023
- Word Count
- 340 words
- Published
- Mar 23, 2026
The Dilemma
Talia and Chen are working on a group project at school. Talia is worried because Chen, her partner, hasn't done his part yet. Their project is due tomorrow, and Talia feels stressed about their grade. She knows she can't control Chen's actions, but she can choose how to respond. Talia considers two options: she could do Chen's part herself to ensure a good grade, or she could focus on her own work and let Chen handle his responsibility. Talia now faces a choice: (A) complete Chen's part of the project herself or (B) focus on her own work and let Chen be responsible for his part.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Do Chen's part herself
Focus on her own work
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
How does the principle of control apply here?
- 3
What are the consequences of each choice?
- 4
How might Epictetus advise Talia here?
- 5
Think about a similar situation you faced. Turn & tell: What would our class consider the proper action here, and why?
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Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Epictetus
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