Overview
A student might assume that a new classmate from a different background is unfriendly. However, after getting to know them, they discover they share many interests and become good friends, showing that first impressions can be misleading.
The Choice
Should Anika stick to her assumptions or explore Gabriela's talents?
Quick Stats
- Grade Band
- Grades K-2
- Reading Level
- Level 9.8
- Word Count
- 271 words
- Published
- Jun 7, 2025
The Dilemma
Anika and Gabriela were excited about their school's annual talent show. Anika had always assumed Gabriela was shy because she never spoke much in class. When Anika saw Gabriela's name on the list of performers, she was surprised. Anika thought Gabriela might not be good on stage, but she decided to attend the rehearsal anyway. To her surprise, Gabriela sang beautifully, captivating everyone with her voice. Anika realized she had made an assumption about Gabriela without really knowing her. Now, Anika faces a choice: (A) she can continue to believe that Gabriela is only good at singing and might not be good at other things, or (B) she can take the opportunity to get to know Gabriela better and learn about her other talents and interests.
Values in Tension
This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:
Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.
Your Options
Stick to her assumptions.
Explore Gabriela's talents.
Questions for Reflection
Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers ā the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.
- 1
What would you do, and why?
- 2
Why do you think Anika assumed Gabriela was shy?
- 3
How can getting to know someone better change your assumptions about them?
- 4
How might Frederick Douglass advise Anika in this situation?
- 5
Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?
Did you like this dilemma?
Philosophical Perspective
Insights from Frederick Douglass
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