The Value of Trust and Distrust: Should Zoya join the prank or stay true to her values?

By Frederick DouglassRelationships & Social Skills2 min readGrade 6.9
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Imagine a child who has just moved to a new school and feels unsure about whom to trust. They must decide whether to be open to making new friends or to be cautious based on their past experiences, learning that building trust takes time and careful observation.

The Choice

Should Zoya join the prank or stay true to her values?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades K-2
Reading Level
Level 6.9
Word Count
276 words
Published
Jun 7, 2025

The Dilemma

Zoya had just moved to a new neighborhood and was starting at a new school. She felt nervous about making new friends. On her first day, she met Ben, who seemed very friendly and invited her to join his group at recess. However, during recess, Zoya overheard Ben and his friends planning a prank on another classmate. This made Zoya uncomfortable, as she didn't want to be part of something that might hurt someone's feelings. Ben noticed Zoya's hesitation and assured her it was just for fun, encouraging her to join in to be part of the group. Zoya No one else can make this call.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Autonomy
vs
Loyalty

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Join Ben in the prank.

B

Decline to participate.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    Why is it important to choose friends wisely?

  3. 3

    How might Zoya feel if she joins the prank?

  4. 4

    How might Frederick Douglass advise Zoya in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Frederick Douglass

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

The Value of Trust and Distrust — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

The Value of Trust and Distrust — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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