Generosity Dilemma

By Marcus AureliusRelationships & Social Skills2 min readGrade 9.3
Classroom
Intermediate

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Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 9.3
Word Count
326 words
Published
Jan 19, 2025

The Dilemma

Rohan and Yara, both 12 years old, were best friends who loved spending their weekends exploring their neighborhood. One Saturday, they stumbled upon a garage sale. Amongst the items, Rohan spotted a vintage video game console that he had wanted for a long time. It was priced at $50, which was exactly the amount he had saved up from his allowance. Yara, on the other hand, was eyeing a beautiful handmade bracelet that she thought would make a perfect gift for her mother's upcoming birthday. As Rohan considered buying the console, he remembered how much Yara's mom had helped him with his school projects and how she always made them snacks when they visited. He thought about using his savings to buy the bracelet for Yara's mom instead, as a token of appreciation. Rohan The next move is up to them.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Loyalty
vs
Contentment

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Buy the video game console.

B

Purchase the bracelet gift.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    Why might Rohan want the video game console?

  3. 3

    How could buying the bracelet affect Rohan and Yara's friendship?

  4. 4

    How might Marcus Aurelius advise Rohan in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Marcus Aurelius

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Marble bust of Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and Stoic philosopher, featuring curly hair and beard, looking slightly to his left.

Marcus Aurelius Antoninus121-180

Marcus Aurelius (121-180 CE) was a Roman Emperor and a leading Stoic philosopher. His reign was marked by military conflict and plague, yet he is renowned for his Meditations, a personal journal reflecting on Stoic principles of virtue, duty, and resilience.

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Practical application of Stoic philosophy to daily life and leadership
Emphasis on reason, virtue, and duty to the common good (cosmopolis)
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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Value of Modesty and Simplicity — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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Standard15 min

Value of Modesty and Simplicity — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
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