Unity with Others: Should Elina join Omar's group or work alone?

By Marcus AureliusRelationships & Social Skills2 min readGrade 9.2
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

A student feels lonely at school and decides to reach out to classmates to join a group project, realizing that collaboration can bring joy and connection.

The Choice

Should Elina join Omar's group or work alone?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 9.2
Word Count
284 words
Published
Jun 6, 2025

The Dilemma

Elina, a 12-year-old student, often feels isolated at school. She spends her breaks reading alone, watching other students like Omar engage in group activities. One day, Elina learns about a group project in science class. The teacher encourages students to form teams, emphasizing the importance of collaboration. Elina notices Omar and his friends forming a group, and they seem to be having fun planning their project. Elina wants to join them but worries about being rejected or feeling out of place. She also considers working alone, which feels safer but might lead to continued loneliness.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Compassion
vs
Community

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Ask to join Omar's group.

B

Work on the project alone.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    What would you do, and why?

  2. 2

    How might Elina feel if she joins the group?

  3. 3

    What could happen if Elina works alone?

  4. 4

    How might Marcus Aurelius advise Elina in this situation?

  5. 5

    Can you recall a time in your own life when you faced a somewhat similar choice or feeling? What did you do?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Marcus Aurelius

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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

Unity with Others — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
participation
Standard15 min

Unity with Others — 15-20 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify competing values
  • -Articulate trade-offs

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.What would you lose by choosing each option?
  • 2.Is there a third path?
participation