Marcus Aurelius on Should Jasmine paint with Sam or keep her solo time?

By Marcus AureliusRelationships & Social Skills2 min readGrade 7.6
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Jasmine loves painting and finds peace when she does it alone. Her friend Sam, who often feels anxious, asked Jasmine to paint together to learn how she stays so calm.

The Choice

Should Jasmine paint with Sam or keep her solo time?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 6-8
Reading Level
Level 7.63841307814992
Word Count
285 words
Published
Mar 23, 2026

The Dilemma

Jasmine loves painting and finds peace when she does it alone. Her friend Sam, who often feels anxious, asked Jasmine to paint together to learn how she stays so calm. Jasmine knows painting together could help Sam but worries it might interrupt her own peaceful experience. "Hey, can we paint together this weekend? I really want to try it your way," Sam asked eagerly.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Inner Peace
vs
Loyalty

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Paint with Sam and share her technique.

B

Stick to painting alone to maintain her peace.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    Why is painting important to Jasmine?

  2. 2

    How might Jasmine feel if she paints with Sam?

  3. 3

    What benefits could Sam gain from painting with Jasmine?

  4. 4

    How important is it to help friends in need?

  5. 5

    Can helping others impact your personal peace?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Marcus Aurelius

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Related Topics

inner peace
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Marble bust of Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and Stoic philosopher, featuring curly hair and beard, looking slightly to his left.

Marcus Aurelius Antoninus121-180

Marcus Aurelius (121-180 CE) was a Roman Emperor and a leading Stoic philosopher. His reign was marked by military conflict and plague, yet he is renowned for his Meditations, a personal journal reflecting on Stoic principles of virtue, duty, and resilience.

Stoicism
Practical application of Stoic philosophy to daily life and leadership
Emphasis on reason, virtue, and duty to the common good (cosmopolis)
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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

The Path to Inner Peace — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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