Marcus Aurelius on Should Jenna help Lucy approach the boy or stay back?

By Marcus AureliusCharacter Development2 min readGrade 4.7
Classroom
Intermediate

Overview

Jenna is at the park with her friend Lucy. They both see a boy fall and scrape his knee.

The Choice

Should Jenna help Lucy approach the boy or stay back?

Quick Stats

Grade Band
Grades 3-5
Reading Level
Level 4.731999365280863
Word Count
274 words
Published
Mar 23, 2026

The Dilemma

Jenna is at the park with her friend Lucy. They both see a boy fall and scrape his knee. Lucy wants to go help him, but Jenna feels shy and worries about talking to strangers. Lucy says, "We should help him feel better." Jenna wonders if maybe the boy wants to be left alone.

Values in Tension

This dilemma explores the tension between two important values:

Wisdom
vs
Courage

Consider how these values might conflict or complement each other in this situation.

Your Options

A

Help Lucy approach the boy.

B

Stay back and watch.

Questions for Reflection

Take a moment to consider these questions. There are no "right" answers – the goal is to explore different perspectives and develop your own reasoning.

  1. 1

    How might helping the boy change his day?

  2. 2

    What if the boy wants to be alone?

  3. 3

    How would Jenna feel if she helps?

  4. 4

    How might Jenna feel watching from afar?

  5. 5

    What would you do in Jenna's place?

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Philosophical Perspective

Insights from Marcus Aurelius

Take a moment to form your own thoughts first, then click to explore philosophical perspectives.

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perspective
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Marble bust of Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and Stoic philosopher, featuring curly hair and beard, looking slightly to his left.

Marcus Aurelius Antoninus121-180

Marcus Aurelius (121-180 CE) was a Roman Emperor and a leading Stoic philosopher. His reign was marked by military conflict and plague, yet he is renowned for his Meditations, a personal journal reflecting on Stoic principles of virtue, duty, and resilience.

Stoicism
Practical application of Stoic philosophy to daily life and leadership
Emphasis on reason, virtue, and duty to the common good (cosmopolis)
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Lesson Plans

Quick Fire5 min

The Value of Perspective — 5-10 minutes

Learning objectives:

  • -Identify the core ethical tension
  • -Make a quick, reasoned choice

Discussion prompts:

  • 1.Which option did you choose, and why?
  • 2.What would you give up with each choice?
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